I've found, over and over, that those who are most upset with "identity politics" or identity being the way most people think of themselves are those who are the invisible assumption.

Those of us who have been separated by our identities are, of course, celebrating them. Instead of complaining that we are looking inward because all of society has spent centuries looking only at our exteriors and claiming what they will about us, ask yourself why society hasn't let you do the same.